Child Safety Training for Staff
MANDATORY TRAINING FOR ALL TEAM MEMBERS
1. INTRODUCTION AND SCOPE
Section titled “1. INTRODUCTION AND SCOPE”1.1. Purpose of This Training
Section titled “1.1. Purpose of This Training”This training document provides guidance for all Team members on recognising, responding to and managing child safety concerns within our community. Child safety is our highest priority. All Team members must be prepared to respond appropriately to any situation involving minors or potential child safety risks.
1.2. Integration with Existing Policies
Section titled “1.2. Integration with Existing Policies”This training operates within our full safety and protection framework:
(a) Community Code of Conduct: Behavioural expectations and community safety standards.
(b) Content and Moderation Policy: Enforcement procedures and content restrictions.
(c) Crisis and Mental Health Management Policy: Emergency response procedures for safety concerns.
(d) Staff Handbook: General staff responsibilities and expectations.
(e) Legal Compliance Requirements: Mandatory reporting obligations and legal responsibilities.
1.3. Critical Disclaimer
Section titled “1.3. Critical Disclaimer”REMEMBER: WE ARE NOT CHILD PROTECTION PROFESSIONALS
- We cannot conduct investigations or make determinations about child safety
- Our role is limited to recognition, immediate response and appropriate escalation
- We must maintain clear professional boundaries at all times
- When in doubt, escalate immediately to senior staff and appropriate authorities
- Legal reporting obligations may require immediate action regardless of uncertainty
WHO TO CONTACT: The Trust and Safety Lead position is not currently filled. Until it is, wherever this document says to notify the Trust and Safety Lead, message Naomi directly on Discord straight away. Do not wait for a reply before you remove or hide the content and record the details.
2. UNDERSTANDING CHILD SAFETY IN ONLINE COMMUNITIES
Section titled “2. UNDERSTANDING CHILD SAFETY IN ONLINE COMMUNITIES”2.1. Types of Child Safety Concerns
Section titled “2.1. Types of Child Safety Concerns”2.1.1. Direct Safety Threats (IMMEDIATE ACTION REQUIRED)
Section titled “2.1.1. Direct Safety Threats (IMMEDIATE ACTION REQUIRED)”Physical Safety Threats:
- Direct threats of harm to minors
- Grooming behaviours targeting minors
- Attempts to arrange in-person meetings with minors
- Requests for personal information from minors (addresses, school names, etc.)
- Sharing of inappropriate content with minors
Online Safety Threats:
- Attempts to move conversations to private platforms
- Requests for photos or videos from minors
- Pressure to keep conversations secret
- Requests for personal identifying information
- Attempts to isolate minors from support systems
2.1.2. Content Safety Concerns (ESCALATE WITHIN 15 MINUTES)
Section titled “2.1.2. Content Safety Concerns (ESCALATE WITHIN 15 MINUTES)”Inappropriate Content:
- Sexual content shared with or by minors
- Age-inappropriate discussions initiated by adults
- Requests for inappropriate content from minors
- Sharing of adult content in spaces accessible to minors
- Inappropriate language or topics directed at minors
Boundary Violations:
- Adults forming inappropriate relationships with minors
- Excessive private messaging between adults and minors
- Adults attempting to become “friends” with minors inappropriately
- Sharing personal adult problems or issues with minors
- Attempts to gain inappropriate influence over minors
2.1.3. Environmental Safety Concerns (RESPOND WITHIN 1 HOUR)
Section titled “2.1.3. Environmental Safety Concerns (RESPOND WITHIN 1 HOUR)”Unsafe Community Environments:
- Spaces where minors are exposed to harmful content
- Lack of appropriate moderation in minor-accessible areas
- Inadequate age verification or protection measures
- Environments where grooming behaviours could occur unnoticed
- Insufficient reporting mechanisms for minors
Policy and Process Gaps:
- Missing or inadequate child safety policies
- Insufficient staff training on child safety
- Lack of clear reporting procedures
- Inadequate response to previous child safety concerns
- Gaps in age verification or access controls
2.2. Recognising Grooming Behaviours
Section titled “2.2. Recognising Grooming Behaviours”2.2.1. Grooming Indicators
Section titled “2.2.1. Grooming Indicators”Early Stage Grooming:
- Adults seeking out and initiating contact with minors
- Compliments and flattery designed to build trust
- Finding common interests to create connection
- Offering special attention or privileges
- Attempts to become a “trusted friend” or “mentor”
Escalation Patterns:
- Moving conversations to private channels
- Requesting personal information gradually
- Testing boundaries with increasingly inappropriate content
- Creating secrets and asking minors to keep things private
- Isolating minors from their support systems
Advanced Grooming:
- Explicit requests for photos, videos or personal information
- Attempts to arrange in-person meetings
- Threats or manipulation if the minor does not comply
- Requests for sexual content or conversations
- Attempts to normalise inappropriate behaviour
2.2.2. Red Flags and Warning Signs
Section titled “2.2.2. Red Flags and Warning Signs”Communication Patterns:
- Adults who primarily interact with minors rather than peers
- Excessive private messaging between adults and specific minors
- Adults who seem to have many “young friends”
- Conversations that seem inappropriate for the relationship
- Adults who become defensive when questioned about interactions with minors
Behavioural Indicators:
- Attempts to bypass community safety measures
- Requests to use platforms with less oversight
- Attempts to discourage minors from reporting concerns
- Adults who seem overly interested in minors’ personal lives
- Patterns of boundary-testing behaviour
3. IMMEDIATE RESPONSE PROCEDURES
Section titled “3. IMMEDIATE RESPONSE PROCEDURES”3.1. Direct Safety Threat Response Protocol
Section titled “3.1. Direct Safety Threat Response Protocol”IMMEDIATE ACTIONS (Within 5 minutes):
- DO NOT DELAY: Child safety concerns require immediate action.
- PRESERVE EVIDENCE SAFELY: Record user IDs, message links, channels and timestamps. Screenshot text-only communications. Never screenshot, download or save sexual imagery of a minor (see Section 3.4).
- ESCALATE IMMEDIATELY: Notify senior staff and the Trust and Safety Lead in staff chat.
- DO NOT CONFRONT: Do not directly confront suspected perpetrators.
- PROTECT THE MINOR: Make sure the minor is safe and supported.
- DOCUMENT EVERYTHING: Record all relevant information whilst it is fresh.
Example Response Template:
URGENT CHILD SAFETY CONCERN
[Brief description of concern][User IDs involved][Platform/channel where incident occurred][Time and date][Message links and IDs recorded; no explicit content attached]
Escalating immediately to the Trust and Safety Lead and senior staff.3.2. Content Safety Concern Response Protocol
Section titled “3.2. Content Safety Concern Response Protocol”ACTIONS (Within 15 minutes):
- REMOVE CONTENT: Immediately remove inappropriate content from public view.
- RECORD, DO NOT COPY: Record user IDs, content links, channels and timestamps. Do not copy or save the content itself (see Section 3.4).
- PROTECT MINORS: Make sure affected minors are safe and supported.
- ESCALATE: Notify the Trust and Safety Lead and senior staff.
- DOCUMENT: Create full documentation of the incident.
- FOLLOW UP: Make sure appropriate follow-up actions are taken.
Example Response Template:
"I have identified inappropriate content involving minors. I have removed the content from public view and recorded the identifying details without copying it. I am escalating this to our Trust and Safety Lead immediately. The affected minors are being contacted to ensure their safety and provide support."3.3. Environmental Safety Concern Response Protocol
Section titled “3.3. Environmental Safety Concern Response Protocol”ACTIONS (Within 1 hour):
- ASSESS RISK: Evaluate the level of risk to minors.
- IMPLEMENT PROTECTIONS: Take immediate steps to protect minors.
- DOCUMENT CONCERNS: Record all identified safety gaps.
- ESCALATE: Report concerns to senior staff and the Trust and Safety Lead.
- DEVELOP SOLUTIONS: Work with the team to address identified gaps.
- MONITOR: Make sure improvements are effective.
3.4. Handling Sexual Content Involving Minors
Section titled “3.4. Handling Sexual Content Involving Minors”Sexual imagery of a minor (suspected child sexual abuse material, or CSAM) must never be copied, saved or shared by staff, even for reporting or evidence purposes. No copy may be kept in any form, including in notes, logs, exports or backups. Possessing or sharing it can be a criminal offence in many jurisdictions. Every additional copy harms the child involved.
DO:
- Stop viewing the content as soon as you recognise it
- Remove or hide it using the platform’s moderation tools, without saving a copy
- Record only identifying details: user IDs, message or content links, channel and timestamps
- Escalate immediately to Naomi on Discord, or to the Trust and Safety Lead once the position is filled, and to senior staff
- Report it through the platform’s own reporting tools and to the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC) CyberTipline, or your national equivalent, such as the Internet Watch Foundation in the United Kingdom
- Ask for support afterwards (see Self-Care Resources)
DO NOT:
- Screenshot, download, record, forward or re-upload the content
- Send it to other staff, to the person who reported it or to the suspected sender
- Confront the suspected sender or tell them that a report has been made
Scanning on Our Domain: We have CSAM scanning enabled on our domain. It applies to content served through our domain. It does not apply to messages or media shared on Discord or other third-party platforms. Reports from staff and the community are therefore still required. Scanning is a safety net and does not replace reporting.
4. LEGAL OBLIGATIONS AND REPORTING REQUIREMENTS
Section titled “4. LEGAL OBLIGATIONS AND REPORTING REQUIREMENTS”4.1. Mandatory Reporting Obligations
Section titled “4.1. Mandatory Reporting Obligations”4.1.1. When Reporting Is Required
Section titled “4.1.1. When Reporting Is Required”Legal Requirements:
- Suspected Abuse or Neglect: Any reasonable suspicion of child abuse or neglect
- Grooming Behaviours: Any suspected grooming or predatory behaviour targeting minors
- Inappropriate Content: Distribution of inappropriate content involving minors
- Exploitation: Any suspected exploitation of minors
- Immediate Danger: Any situation where a minor appears to be in immediate danger
Jurisdictional Considerations:
- Reporting requirements vary by jurisdiction
- Some jurisdictions require reporting by all adults
- Some jurisdictions have specific requirements for organisations
- When in doubt, consult with legal counsel and report
- Multiple jurisdictions may require reporting to multiple agencies
4.1.2. How to Report
Section titled “4.1.2. How to Report”Internal Reporting:
- Immediate Escalation: Notify the Trust and Safety Lead and senior staff immediately
- Documentation: Provide full documentation of concerns
- Follow Procedures: Follow established internal reporting procedures
- Coordination: Coordinate with other Team members as appropriate
External Reporting:
- Child Protection Services: Report to appropriate child protection agency
- Law Enforcement: Report to law enforcement when criminal activity is suspected
- National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC): Report online exploitation through CyberTipline
- Platform Reporting: Report to platform administrators when appropriate
- Legal Counsel: Consult with legal counsel for guidance on reporting obligations
4.2. Documentation Requirements
Section titled “4.2. Documentation Requirements”4.2.1. Required Information to Document
Section titled “4.2.1. Required Information to Document”Incident Details:
- Date and Time: Exact date and time of incident or discovery
- Platform and Location: Where the incident occurred
- Parties Involved: All user IDs and any known identifying information
- Content: Message links, IDs, logs and written descriptions of relevant content, never copies of sexual imagery involving a minor (see Section 3.4)
- Actions Taken: All actions taken in response to the incident
Context Information:
- Historical Context: Any previous interactions or concerns involving the parties
- Witnesses: Any other staff or community members who witnessed the incident
- Minor Information: Age of minor(s) involved (if known) and any safety concerns
- Risk Assessment: Assessment of immediate and ongoing risk to minors
- Follow-up Plans: Planned follow-up actions and monitoring
4.2.2. Privacy and Confidentiality
Section titled “4.2.2. Privacy and Confidentiality”Protecting Minors:
- Minimise Disclosure: Share information only on a need-to-know basis
- Secure Storage: Store all documentation securely and access-controlled
- Anonymisation: Use anonymisation when sharing for training or improvement purposes
- Consent Considerations: Consider minor and guardian consent when appropriate
Legal Requirements:
- Retention Policies: Follow legal requirements for document retention
- Access Controls: Limit access to authorised personnel only
- Legal Holds: Preserve written records when legal action is possible. This never includes sexual imagery of a minor
- Confidentiality: Maintain confidentiality whilst fulfilling reporting obligations
5. ESCALATION PROCEDURES
Section titled “5. ESCALATION PROCEDURES”Reference to Full Escalation Procedures: For universal escalation principles and general escalation procedures, see Escalation Protocol in the Staff Handbook. This section provides child-safety-specific escalation steps.
5.1. When to Escalate
Section titled “5.1. When to Escalate”ALWAYS ESCALATE IMMEDIATELY:
- Any direct safety threat to a minor
- Any suspected grooming behaviour
- Any inappropriate content involving minors
- Any situation where a minor appears to be in immediate danger
- Any request for personal information from a minor by an adult
- Any attempt to arrange in-person meetings with minors
- Any situation where you feel uncertain about appropriate response
5.2. How to Escalate
Section titled “5.2. How to Escalate”Internal Escalation:
- Staff Chat Alert: Post urgent alert in staff chat and tag @Naomi
- Direct Contact: Contact Naomi directly on Discord, or the Trust and Safety Lead once the position is filled
- Senior Staff Notification: Notify senior staff and leadership immediately
- Documentation: Provide all documentation and context immediately
- Follow Instructions: Follow any specific directions from senior staff
Emergency Escalation:
- Immediate Danger: Contact emergency services if minor is in immediate physical danger
- @Naomi Alert: Alert @Naomi immediately for critical situations
- Legal Counsel: Consult legal counsel for guidance on reporting obligations
- External Authorities: Report to appropriate child protection or law enforcement agencies
5.3. Escalation Chain
Section titled “5.3. Escalation Chain”Standard Escalation:
- Naomi, or the Trust and Safety Lead once the position is filled
- Senior Staff / Leadership
- Legal Counsel (if needed)
- External Authorities (as required by law)
Emergency Escalation:
- Emergency Services (if immediate physical danger)
- Naomi, or the Trust and Safety Lead once the position is filled
- Senior Staff / Leadership
- Legal Counsel
- External Authorities
6. COMMUNICATION WITH MINORS AND FAMILIES
Section titled “6. COMMUNICATION WITH MINORS AND FAMILIES”6.1. Communicating with Minors
Section titled “6.1. Communicating with Minors”6.1.1. Supportive Communication
Section titled “6.1.1. Supportive Communication”Do:
- Believe and Validate: Believe minors who report concerns and validate their experiences
- Reassure Safety: Reassure minors that their safety is the priority
- Explain Process: Explain what will happen next in age-appropriate language
- Provide Support: Connect minors with appropriate support resources
- Maintain Boundaries: Maintain appropriate professional boundaries
Do Not:
- Do Not Investigate: Do not attempt to conduct your own investigation
- Do Not Promise Outcomes: Do not promise specific outcomes or consequences
- Do Not Minimise: Do not minimise concerns or suggest they are overreacting
- Do Not Blame: Do not suggest the minor did anything wrong
- Do Not Share Details: Do not share details about actions taken against others
6.1.2. Age-Appropriate Communication
Section titled “6.1.2. Age-Appropriate Communication”Younger Minors (Under 13):
- Use simple, clear language
- Focus on safety and support
- Avoid graphic details
- Emphasise that they did the right thing by reporting
- Involve guardians/parents as appropriate
Teenagers (13-17):
- Respect their autonomy whilst making sure they are safe
- Provide clear information about what will happen
- Offer choices when appropriate
- Connect with appropriate support resources
- Respect privacy whilst maintaining safety
6.2. Communicating with Families
Section titled “6.2. Communicating with Families”6.2.1. When and How to Contact Families
Section titled “6.2.1. When and How to Contact Families”When to Contact:
- When a minor reports a safety concern
- When inappropriate content involving a minor is discovered
- When grooming behaviour targeting a minor is suspected
- When legal reporting requirements mandate family notification
- When a minor requests family involvement
How to Contact:
- Respect Privacy: Respect minor and family privacy preferences when possible
- Clear Communication: Provide clear, factual information about concerns
- Support Resources: Connect families with appropriate support resources
- Follow Legal Requirements: Follow legal requirements for family notification
- Professional Boundaries: Maintain professional boundaries in all communications
6.2.2. Supporting Families
Section titled “6.2.2. Supporting Families”Information Provision:
- Provide clear information about what happened
- Explain what actions are being taken
- Share available support resources
- Answer questions within appropriate boundaries
- Provide ongoing updates as appropriate
Resource Connection:
- Connect families with child protection resources
- Provide information about reporting to authorities
- Share resources for supporting minors who have experienced harm
- Connect with mental health resources if needed
- Provide information about online safety resources
7. PREVENTION STRATEGIES
Section titled “7. PREVENTION STRATEGIES”7.1. Community Safety Measures
Section titled “7.1. Community Safety Measures”7.1.1. Age Verification and Access Controls
Section titled “7.1.1. Age Verification and Access Controls”Age Verification:
- Implement appropriate age verification measures
- Clearly mark spaces intended for adults only
- Restrict adult-only content to verified adult spaces
- Provide clear age-appropriate spaces for minors
- Regularly review and update age verification processes
Access Controls:
- Limit private messaging between adults and minors
- Monitor interactions in minor-accessible spaces
- Implement reporting mechanisms easily accessible to minors
- Provide clear safety information for minors
- Regularly audit access controls and safety measures
7.1.2. Moderation and Monitoring
Section titled “7.1.2. Moderation and Monitoring”Proactive Moderation:
- Active moderation in all minor-accessible spaces
- Regular monitoring of interactions involving minors
- Pattern recognition for grooming behaviours
- Quick response to inappropriate content
- Regular safety audits of community spaces
Community Education:
- Provide age-appropriate online safety education for minors
- Educate community members about appropriate interactions with minors
- Share information about recognising and reporting grooming behaviours
- Provide resources for parents and guardians
- Regular community reminders about safety policies
7.2. Staff Training and Preparedness
Section titled “7.2. Staff Training and Preparedness”7.2.1. Ongoing Training
Section titled “7.2.1. Ongoing Training”Regular Updates:
- Quarterly child safety training updates
- Regular review of grooming behaviour indicators
- Updates on legal reporting requirements
- Training on new platforms and safety features
- Case study reviews and learning sessions
Skill Development:
- Recognition of grooming behaviours
- Appropriate response procedures
- Documentation best practices
- Communication with minors and families
- Legal compliance and reporting
7.2.2. Policy and Process Improvement
Section titled “7.2.2. Policy and Process Improvement”Continuous Improvement:
- Regular review of child safety policies
- Updates based on new threats and patterns
- Improvement of reporting and response procedures
- Enhancement of prevention measures
- Integration of community feedback
8. SELF-CARE AND EMOTIONAL SUPPORT
Section titled “8. SELF-CARE AND EMOTIONAL SUPPORT”Full Self-Care Resources: For detailed self-care strategies, emotional support resources and wellness practices, see Self-Care Resources for Staff. This section provides child-safety-specific considerations. Refer to the self-care resources document for full guidance.
8.1. Child Safety-Specific Self-Care Considerations
Section titled “8.1. Child Safety-Specific Self-Care Considerations”8.1.1. Understanding the Impact
Section titled “8.1.1. Understanding the Impact”Additional Considerations for Child Safety Work:
- High emotional impact of child safety concerns
- Risk of secondary trauma from exposure to grooming or abuse
- Need for professional support and supervision
- Importance of maintaining professional boundaries
- Regular debriefing and support
Self-Care Practices:
- Mandatory debriefing after child safety incidents
- Access to professional counselling or support
- Clear boundaries between work and personal life
- Regular supervision and support from the Trust and Safety Lead
- Practice self-compassion and recognise emotional impact
8.2. Support Systems
Section titled “8.2. Support Systems”8.2.1. Team Support
Section titled “8.2.1. Team Support”Peer Support:
- Regular check-ins with colleagues working on child safety
- Debriefing sessions after difficult incidents
- Sharing successful strategies and lessons learned
- Mutual support and understanding
- Recognition of positive outcomes
Supervisory Support:
- Regular meetings with supervisors to discuss challenges
- Access to additional resources and support
- Workload management and distribution
- Recognition of difficult work
- Professional development opportunities
8.2.2. Professional Resources
Section titled “8.2.2. Professional Resources”Mental Health Support:
- Access to counselling and mental health resources
- Support groups for professionals working in child safety
- Trauma-informed therapy resources
- Crisis support when needed
- Ongoing mental health maintenance
Professional Development:
- Training on trauma-informed practices
- Education on secondary trauma and burnout prevention
- Skills development for managing difficult situations
- Access to professional resources and networks
- Career development support
9. PRACTICE SCENARIOS AND TRAINING EXERCISES
Section titled “9. PRACTICE SCENARIOS AND TRAINING EXERCISES”9.1. Scenario 1: Suspected Grooming Behaviour
Section titled “9.1. Scenario 1: Suspected Grooming Behaviour”Situation: You notice an adult community member frequently private messaging a 15-year-old member. The adult has been asking personal questions about the minor’s school, friends and family. The adult recently asked the minor to keep their conversations “just between us.”
Your Response:
- What risk level is this?
- What immediate actions should you take?
- What should you record, and what must you never save?
- Who should you escalate to?
- How would you communicate with the minor?
Correct Answer: High-risk situation requiring immediate escalation. Preserve the text of the messages, and record user IDs, links and timestamps. Never copy, screenshot or save sexual imagery of a minor (see Section 3.4). Notify the Trust and Safety Lead immediately and make sure the minor is supported whilst maintaining appropriate boundaries.
9.2. Scenario 2: Inappropriate Content Discovery
Section titled “9.2. Scenario 2: Inappropriate Content Discovery”Situation: A community member reports finding inappropriate sexual content in a channel accessible to minors. The content appears to have been shared by an adult member who may not have realised minors could access the channel.
Your Response:
- What immediate actions are required?
- How do you protect minors who may have seen the content?
- What documentation is needed, and what must you never save?
- What follow-up actions are necessary?
- How do you prevent similar incidents?
9.3. Scenario 3: Minor Reporting Concern
Section titled “9.3. Scenario 3: Minor Reporting Concern”Situation: A 14-year-old community member contacts you privately to report that an adult member has been asking them for photos and trying to get them to move their conversation to a different platform. The minor is scared but does not want to “get anyone in trouble.”
Your Response:
- How do you support and reassure the minor?
- What immediate safety actions are needed?
- How do you handle the minor’s concerns about reporting?
- What should you record, and what must you never save?
- What reporting obligations exist?
10. TRAINING REQUIREMENTS
Section titled “10. TRAINING REQUIREMENTS”This training document is part of the full mandatory training curriculum. For complete information about initial onboarding requirements, annual review requirements and compliance policies, see Mandatory Training Requirements in the Staff Handbook.
Key Points:
- This document must be reviewed during initial onboarding and annually thereafter
- Failure to complete annual training review will result in dismissal from staff positions
- All training completions are documented in staff records for accountability, legal compliance and quality assurance
This Child Safety Training document is part of our Team development programme. It is designed to provide the highest level of protection for minors in our community. Child safety is our highest priority. All Team members must complete this training before assuming moderation responsibilities. For questions about child safety procedures or to report training completion, please contact the Trust and Safety Lead through designated Team channels.